PARENT LENDING LIBRARY BOOK LIST

 

The following books are available to all parents in CCSD.  If you are interested in loaning a book, please contact your school’s parent facilitator.  If the book is not at your school, the facilitator will request it from the school that currently has the book.  The books can be picked up by you in person or sent home with your child.

Topic/Interest

Title of Book

Description

Location

Academics

Bright Minds, Poor Grades

This book provides a ten step program  to understanding and motivating your underachieving child.

Hendersonville Elementary

Academics

Bringing Math Home

A Parent’s guide to elementary school math with dozens of innovative hands on project ideas to help your child understand math.

Bells Elementary, Cottageville Elementary

Academics

How to Get you Child to Love Reading

An indispensable resource that will empower even the busiest parents and the most unengaged children to include literature in their lives.

Forest Hills Elementary

Academics

How to Help Your Child Read and Write

This book offers a comprehensive approach to enable you to best support your child in the essential development of reading and writing.

Black Street Early Childhood Center, Northside Elementary

Academics

School Sense: How to Help your Child Succeed in Elementary School

A question and answer guide to parents most frequently asked questions about helping their child succeed.

Forest Hills Elementary,

Northside Elementary,  Hendersonville Elementary

Academics

Your Child’s Strengths

A guide for parents and teachers to discover, develop and use the strengths of children rather than the weaknesses.

Bells Elementary

Adoption

Raising Adopted Children

This book addresses the pressing adoption issues of today, such as open adoption, international adoption, transracial adoption and answers to parents’ most frequently asked questions about adoption.

Bells Elementary

Attention Problems

10 Days to a Less Distracted Child

A fresh, highly effective and completely original take on handling inattentive children including those with ADHD and other conditions.

Northside Elementary

Attention Problems

Overcoming ADHD

This book steers away from the pitfalls of labeling, or of simply stamping out symptoms with medication and demonstrates how children can confidently learn to engage with others, attend to what they see and hear and maintain their focus on the problems at hand.

Forest Hills Elementary

Attention Problems

The Gift of ADHD: How to Transform you Child’s Problems into Strengths

This book presents evidence that ADHD may not be a hindrance, but an asset and explains how you can help your child develop control and enhance the five gifts of  ADHD (creativity, attunement to nature, interpersonal intuition, energetic enthusiasm, and emotional sensitivity)

Hendersonville Elementary

 

Behaviors

Is it a Big Problem or a Little Problem?  When to Worry, When Not to Worry and What to Do

Almost every child, at some point during their early years, won’t listen, will throw a tantrum, will be mean or aggressive, shy or withdrawn, a picky eater and more.  Learn when to worry, when not to worry and what to do.  This book is essential guide to decoding your child’s behavior.

Cottageville  Elementary

Boys

Better Dads, Stronger Sons

The relationship between a father and son is like none other.  This book will help you build that relationship and help our son grow into everything he is meant to be.

Bells Elementary

Boys

Helping boys Succeed in School

A practical guide for parents and teachers to channel natural interests of boys, keep them engaged in school, and increase their commitment to school success.

Forest Hills Elementary

Boys

Raising Confident Boys

100 practical, effective tips for those who want to help boys be noticed, admired, understood and accepted.

Hendersonville Elementary

Boys

The Secret Lives of Boys

An uncensored look into boyhood in the 21st  century.

Ruffin Middle

Divorce

Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way

Divorce is painful and confusing.  This book helps you and your children cope with divorce in a warm and empathetic way.

Forest Hills Elementary

Divorce

How to Parent with Your Ex

How to Parent with Your Ex provides support for the difficult situation the non-residential parent is in and practical, to-the-point advice about how to reap the most benefits from the visitation time available.  Conversely, it addresses the role of the residential parent and the need to understand the changing relationships the child is going through.  By focusing on the child, both parents are able to solidify a special relationship with the child and maintain necessary, positive communication with the ex-spouse.

Northside Elementary

Emotions

Helping you Kids deal with Anger, Fear and Sadness

No parents want to see their children struggle, especially with dark emotions.  Parents will gain keen insights into the cause of these intense moods and be able to develop  sound principles in dealing effectively with them.

Cottageville Elementary, Forest Hills Elementary

Emotions

She’s Gonna Blow – Real Help for Moms Dealing with Anger

Yes, you do love your kids – and other moms struggle with feelings of anger just like you do.  A “been there, done that” mom turns to hilarious scenes of everyday life with kids into a practical guide for anyone who is wrestling with down to earth realities.

Forest Hills Elementary

Emotions

When Your Child is Hurting

This book discusses how to help your child overcome life’s everyday hurts and survive the ups and downs of life.

Hendersonville Elementary

Games/Activities

MegaSkills

A guide of hands on techniques and kid friendly activities to teach children confidence, effort, initiative, caring, motivation, responsibility, perseverance, teamwork, problem solving, common sense, focus and respect.

Black Street Early Childhood Center

Games/Activities

Unplugged Play

A parent-friendly encyclopedia of hundreds of battery-free, screen-free, chirp-and-beep-free games that stretch the imagination, spark creativity, build strong bodies and forge deep friendships.

Black Street Early Childhood Center

Girls

Between Mother and Daughter

The special and loving bond between mothers and daughters doesn’t have to vanish with the onset of the teenage years.  Listen to Judy Ford and her teenage daughter as they discuss issues that often lead to conflict and how to solve problems and grow closer together.

Colleton Middle

Girls

Reclaiming our Daughters: What parenting a pre-teen taught me about real girls

A fresh perspective on pre-teen and teenage girls that finally brings a message of hope and optimism about girls today

Ruffin Middle

Girls

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters

To become a strong, confident woman, a daughter needs her fathers attention, protection, courage and wisdom.  This book shares ten secrets every father needs to know win order to strengthen or rebuild bonds with his daughter and shape her life, and his own, for the better.

Northside Elementary

Girls

You’d Be So Pretty If…

Your daughter’s body is beginning to change, and she’s not sure what to make of it.  Meanwhile, you’re facing dilemmas: you’re trying to lose weight, but don’t want her to think she has to.  Or maybe you’re unhappy with your looks – so how do you help your daughter love hers?  This book explains the powerful effects that a mother’s self-image has on her daughter and how parents can break the cycle of “bad body image”

Forest Circle Middle

Grandparent Parenting

Grandparents as Parents

A survival guide for raising a second family.  This book discusses the personal, social, bureaucratic, legal and support aspects of raising grandchildren.

Colleton Middle

Grandparent Parenting

To Grandmas House, We…Stay

A roadmap to guide grandparents through the uncharted territories of parenting a second generation.

Hendersonville Elementary

Parenting

151 Ways to Help your Child Have a Great day at School

Easy to use tips and activities to help your child get ready for a fun and productive school day.

Black Street Early Childhood Center

 

Parenting

Ask SuperNanny

Supernanny Jo Frost answersa specific questions about all the hot button issues that parents face.

Black Street Early Childhood Center, Cottagevill Elementary

Parenting

For Parents Only

This book takes a look inside the minds of teens and preteens to help parents tackle those things they don’ “get” about their kids.

Bells Elementary

Parenting

Have a New Kid By Friday

This book is a 5 day action plan that helps you change your child’s behavior.

Hendersonville Elementary, Cottageville

Parenting

Helicopters, Drill Sergeants and Consultants

This book discusses parenting styles and the messages each style sends

Bells Elementary

Parenting

Helping Your Socially Vulnerable Child

This book provides a clinically proven set of coping tools and social strategies that you can tailor to your child’s unique social and emotional needs to promote confidence, independence and social ease.

Black Street Early Childhood Center

Parenting

I’m not Your Friend, I’m Your Parent

This book discusses the various pressures and difficulties of being a parent and offers techniques on how to set the boundaries your kids need…and really want.

Hendersonville Elementary

Parenting

It Takes a Parent

This book discusses the culture of pushover parents, how it is hurting our children and what to do about it

Cottageville Elementary

Parenting

Making Children Mind without losing yours

This book equips parents with seven principles of Reality Discipline along with questions and answers and real-life examples to guide parents

Black Street Early Childhood Center, Northside Elementary

Parenting

Nanny 911

The nannies from the hit television show, Nanny 911, share their wisdom with overwhelmed parents desperate for foolproof parenting advice at their fingertips.

Northside Elementary

Parenting

Organizing the Disorganized Child

This book offers solutions to the messy backpack problem and morning and nighttime routines as well as ways to improve study skills, note-taking, and time management skills.

Northside Elementary

Parenting

Parenting the Strong Willed Child

Whether it is not following instructions, temper tantrums, or other disruptive behaviors, this book brings you effective strategies for improving your child’s behavior with lasting results.

Cottageville Elementary

Parenting

Parenting with Love and Logic

After laying out the principles of “Love and Logic,” the authors provide “parenting pearls,” which are strategies for applying the method to actual situations such as back-seat battles in the car, homework, and keeping bedrooms clean.

Northside Elementary

Parenting

Raise Them Up

The real deal on reaching unreachable kids

Ruffin Middle

Parenting

Raising Children You Can Live With

This book gives you answers to parenting questions, provides phrases to use in difficult situations, instructs how to turn sour interactions into pleasant ones and outlines specific strategies for success.

Bells Elementary

Parenting

Raising Kids Who Care

Raising kids who care about themselves, their world and each other

Black Street Early Childhood Center

Parenting

Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World

Sound advice that will transform your family into responsible citizens

Forest Hills Elementary

Parenting

Raising Unselfish Children in a Self-Absorbed World

This book reassures parents that it is never to late to reshape your child’s heart and discusses how to gently “bump” them off center to focus on others.

Bells Elementary

Parenting

Raising your Spirited Child

This book will help you understand your child’s – and your own – temperamental traits, discover the power of positive, rather than negative, labels, copy with the tantrums and power struggles, and plan for success.

Bells Elementary

Parenting

Rewired: Understanding the iGeneration and the Way They Learn

From iPods to smartphones to Facebook, today’s youth are more plugged in than ever before and it’s becoming increasingly clear that they do not respond to traditional teaching methods.  What should parents and educators expect, socially and academically, from their wired children?

Colleton Middle, Forest Circle Middle

Parenting

Screamfree Parenting

Whether you scream at your children or not, you no doubt feel anxious about them and their choices.  You worry how they’ll turn out.  This book show you how to positively control all your reactive responses to the anxieties of parenting.

Forest Hills Elementary

Parenting

Siblings without Rivalry

This book guides the way to family peace and tranquility with humor and compassion for both parents and children.

Black Street Early Childhood Center, Forest Hills Elementary

Parenting

Teaching Kids to care: Nurturing Character and Compassion

This book illuminates each of five essential touchstones (interdependence, connection, perspective, gratitude and inspiration) to offer parents a fresh and comprehensive framework with which to raise kids who care about each other.  Simple suggestions to reinforce lessons in 3 minutes, 3 hours, or 3 days.

Northside Elementary

Parenting

The 7 Worst Things (good) Parents Do

This book examines the seven most ineffective and self-defeating behaviors that parents display again and again with suggestions of how you, the parent, can change those behaviors immediately.

Hendersonville Elementary

Parenting

The Five Love Languages

Kids desperately want to know how much you love them.  But if you don’t know their special “love languages,” you might as well be speaking gibberish.  Every child (and adult) expresses and receives love best through one of five communication styles (quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of services, physical touch).

Cottageville Elementary, Black Street Early Childhood Center

Parenting

The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child

This book shatters decades worth of myths about child rearing and leads parents through a new method of leading your children.

Black Street Early Childhood Center

Parenting

The Successful Child

No doubt your child’s well-being is of paramount importance to you.  Yet you alone cannot determine who your child will become.  There are myriad forces beyond your control that shape your child’s development.  How best can you, as your child matures, refrain his trust and exert a positive influence?

Bells Elementary

Parenting – Mom

I was a Really Good Mom Before I Had Kids

Fresh from the front lines of motherhood comes a book that uncovers the guilty secrets of moms today.  This book diagnoses the craziness and offers real solutions , so that mothers can step out of the madness and learn to love motherhood as much as they love their kids.

Cottageville Elementary

Single Parenting

Raising Great Children on Your Own

Raising kids on your own is hard work.  This book provides practical and proactive ideas that you can use to guide your kids, take care of yourself, build strong connections, manage your household and make good decisions.

Cottageville Elementary

Single Parenting

Single Parenting that Works

Discover six keys that will transform your perspective as a single-parent and help you create a plan tailored to you and your family.

Hendersonville Elementary

Stepfamily

Keys to Successful Step-Fathering

A commonsense practical guide to help step-fathers ease into their role. This book has suggestions for getting along with stepchildren, building lasting relationships, managing conflict, establishing authority and communicating in a positive way so that you can fully enjoy the rewards of being a stepfather.

Forest Circle Middle

Stepfamily

Living in a stepfamily Without Getting Stepped On

This book discusses how a stepfamily can blend a family without breaking it and come out of the process not only a survivor, but a winner.

Colleton Middle

Stepfamily

Stepmotherhood

How to survive without felling frustrated, left out, or wicked.  This book brings together countless insights and sound advice based on the latest research and interviews with experts in the field.

Ruffin Middle

 

 

Stepfamily

The Smart Step-Family

This book explains the myth of the blended family and provides practical realistic solutions to the issues that stepfamilies face.

Hendersonville Elementary

Stepfamily

The Smart Step-Mom

In today’s complicated stepfamily, the stepmom often doesn’t know where to turn for help.  This book offers hope, encouragement and practical information you need for the stepmom journey.

Northside Elementary

Teenagers

20 Tough Questions Teenagers Ask…And 20 Tough Answers

An answer guide, without the lecture, to some of teenager’s toughest questions.

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

A Parents Guide to Helping Teenagers in Crisis

The crises teens face range from something as mild as getting caught cheating to getting in trouble with the law.  It may be your child in crisis or a friend of your child, which is affecting your teen as well.  Either way, when crisis happens, you want to be prepared.  In addition to learning appropriate responses to crisis, you will learn how to prevent some of these issues – and how to get professionals involved when you need them

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

And Words Can Hurt Forever – How to Protect Adolescents from Bullying, Harassment, and Emotional Violence

This book uncovers the staggering extent and consequences of schoolyard bullying and classroom hostility, flat-out contradicting the nursery rhyme that “words can never hurt you.”  This book teaches parents to accept reality, challenge old beliefs and ally with other parents to take on the school system.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

Be a Parent, Not a Pushover

A guide to raising happy, emotionally healthy teens.  This book explains in plain English how to find balance between giving your child freedom and discipline, love and limits.

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

Conversations on the Go

Clever questions to keep teens and grown ups talking.

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

Dad, If You Only Knew… 8 Things Teens want to tell Their Fathers (But Don’t)

It doesn’t matter if you have the most picture perfect, ideal-in-ever-way teen or one who’s full swing in rebellion.  That teen you love is a “riddle wrapped in a mystery”.  No father can know what his teen is really thinking.  Get an open, honest glimpse inside the teen mind.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

Distractions: Real Talk about Gangs, Drugs, Violence and Sex

Raw truth from a man who has experienced the distractions which youth are going through today.  Parents and youth can learn from the authors past.

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

Get Out of My Life, but first could you drive me and Cheryl to the mall?

A parents guide to the new teenager.  Gives parents a road map to the rocky and ever changing terrain of contemporary adolescence.

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

Girl in the mirror – Mothers and Daughters in the Years of Adolescence

This book teaches us that our daughters’ adolescence isn’t a time to be gotten through or survived; instead it is a tremendous opportunity not just to foster social, emotional and intellectual growth, but to forge new connections between us and our daughters.  Explores the ways in which our own parenting skills must evolve as our daughters move into a new stage of growth.

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

How to Survive Your Teenager

Congratulations! Yu have a teenager.  Hundreds of parents who have been there before you share stories, strategies, anecdotes, and advice, humor and wisdom on critical survival topics.

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

Just Say Know: Talking with Kids about Drugs and Alcohol

This book gives parents, educators and health professionals, powerful tools to talk with kids about how alcohol and other drugs interact with their minds and bodies.  Includes information on a wide range of drugs in a simple, easy to read format.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

My Life as a Middle School Mom: My Kids May Be Deductible, But They’re Still Taxing

An A to Z guide for frazzled parents raising adolescents.

Forest Circle Middle, Ruffin Middle

 

 

 

 

Teenagers

Parent to Parent: A humorous look at the teen scene

Nothing soothes like humor, and this clever collection of poetry is guaranteed to reduce your “drive crazy by teenagers” stress level

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

Positive Discipline for Teenagers: Empowering your Teen and Yourself Through Kind and Firm Parenting

This book shows you how to break the destructive cycle of guilt and blame and work toward greater understanding and communication with your adolescents.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

Staying Connected to Your Teenager – How to keep them talking to you and to hear what they’re really saying

A book of sage advice that will help frustrated parents reconnect with their teenager and keep that connection even in today’s often-crazy world.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

Take Out Your Nose Ring, Honey, We’re Going to Grandma’s

This book is a reassuring antidote to today’s epidemic of negative stereotypes about teenagers: a collection of real-life inspiring and amusing stories from scores of true experts, POA’s. parents of adolescents.  How to hang in, hold on and let go of your teen.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

The Sacred Flight of the Teenagers: A Parent’s Guide to Stepping Back and Letting Go

Parents discover how to help their teenagers accept themselves, become independent, and grow into responsible adults.

Colleton Middle

Teenagers

The Second Family: Dealing with Peer Power, Pop Culture, The Wall of Silence and Other challenges of Raising today’s Teens

This book uses real-life, sometimes graphic examples to bare the truth about the world of adolescence today and to illuminate the new set of rules by which kids operate.

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

The Teen Whisperer: How to Break through the Silence and Secrecy of Teenage Life

More than just a plan to rein in bad behavior, this book deconstructs the emotional barriers that adolescence has placed between you and your child, helping you work with teens on their level – instead of simply treating them as subordinates.  Both you and your teen will learn to offer each other mutual respect and kindness as you work together to heal the troubled hearts of your family.

Forest Circle Middle

Teenagers

Totally Wired: What Teens and Tweens are Really Doing Online

An inside guide to what teens are really doing on the Internet and with technology today.  Includes topics such as social networking, blogging, cyberbullying, and much more!

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

Unhappy Teenagers – A way for parents and teachers to reach them

This book provides a groundbreaking method that all parents can use with confidence and love to keep a strong relationship with their child.

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

Why Do They Act That Way? A survival guide to the adolescent brain for you and your teen

This book explains exactly what happens to the human brain on the path from childhood into adolescence and adulthood.  Includes sample dialogues that help teen and parent talk civilly and constructively with each other, behavioral contracts and Parent Survival kits for advice on issues such as curfew, disrespectful language and actions and bullying.

Ruffin Middle

Teenagers

Yes, Your Teen Is Crazy – Loving Your Kid Without Losing Your Mind

This book clearly explains how parents can encourage and guide their kids through the tumultuous teenage years.

Colleton Middle